can a toilet be DEVISIVE in a marriage?

yes. it can.

{this is actually the toilet upstairs...but it was the only picture i had...to get the point across. }

my sweet girl campbell, is 3, and trying very desperately to be extremely independent. which in my book, is a great thing. a great thing! however, yesterday in her attempts to do so...clogged the toilet. oops.

however, i didn't find out about it until several hours later, over dinner time, when kaycee went in to use the potty. she was horrified the potty wasn't flushed, :) , flushed it, and came out to me when the toilet water was overflowing onto our new bathroom floor, which intern went down thru our new basement ceiling. {all a half hour before heading out to do a service project with small group.}

oh...and i forgot to mention matt was working at the office.

for all my dear married female friends, make sure you know WHAT to do when this happens BEFORE it happens. (hence how a toilet and a 3 year olds choices can become devisive in a marriage).  have a great day.

oh, and p.s. to my dear hubs...this incident just makes me nervous for when i get a flat tire...because i don't know how to fix that either.  :|